Competences prior to a relationship

Looking into the eyes is an art in itself. It was very helpful for me to start by making my eyes have what might be called soft vision. This consists of endowing the eyes with a receptive quality, that is, making everything come to us from outside through them. If we use normal vision, what […]

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82: calibrating your mastery

So Gottman set out to study marriages that march, hoping to shed more light on the happiness of couples. In this way, he began with the difficult task of quantifying intangibles and he did it while the lovers argued about mundane topics such as money, housework or raising children, being recorded by thousands of cameras […]

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